Stay a bit mysterious, a friend told me. Don't even try to change so that others would accept you. As the years pass, you realize that other things don't matter as much as what you carry within.
People tend to relate this to karma or simply traces of our past lives, because we've left many unresolved issues behind and things end up waiting for us. In the circle. So remember, they will find us one way or another, perhaps not tomorrow, but in ten years ...