"You are a like a rock" a dear friend of mine once said to me. "I get the feeling nothing moves you". I often remember his words and it's interesting that we actually see ourselves so differently from the image we reflect.
People tend to relate this to karma or simply traces of our past lives, because we've left many unresolved issues behind and things end up waiting for us. In the circle. So remember, they will find us one way or another, perhaps not tomorrow, but in ten years ...