Learn to find a shape that suits you and, please, go shopping without your husband, because you know they usually say something wrong at the exact moment they're just supposed to stay nice and quiet.
When a woman is neat, with kempt hair, manicured hands, and flawless makeup, extra weight presents no problem, because nobody notices it. So keep in mind, it’s all up to you and how you feel. Here is some of my advice in the hope it will come handy.