Brain follows the emotions, so don't forget you're supposed to feel good, otherwise you fall in a vicious circle that is hard to escape. So find what it is that makes you happy and work on making the most out of it!
I just got used to kitten heels, which was definitely a challenge for me, because I love thin high heels, and here come new models that are neither attractive nor feminine.
Learn to find a shape that suits you and, please, go shopping without your husband, because you know they usually say something wrong at the exact moment they're just supposed to stay nice and quiet.