I know lots of women who are constantly going on a diet and failing, I also have friends who have more curves and pay no attention to their weight, because their strong personalities and charisma overshadow any question of extra weight.
I love some girl time, just drinking coffee with my friends and chatting away, but I admit that I also need quiet times when I stay at home in my slippers, baking cookies, with the telephone screen black. That's life too.